In an attempt to date beyond your Columbia bubble, We joined the mostly shitty but sometimes tolerable realm of OkCupid. My expectations had been understandably low.
By having an inbox constantly high in communications like “Hey” or “You’re hot” or “Wanna fuck?”, I had interest that is little really fulfilling up with somebody, not to mention happening multiple date. I happened to be too busy for such a thing serious, and I also was not prepared to think about the “L” and “A” words — labels and accessory. The things I had never ever considered had been the “C” term — casual. It is a phrase we utilize loosely at Columbia, and its own meaning can are normally taken for casual intercourse to dating that is casual but it is more often than not met with skepticism — we assume that accessory and heartbreak will soon follow. Continue reading